learning how to let go and move on



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"The creation of this book was pretty seamless & came from a place of necessity. I sat with my friend & watched her heart slowly breaking after he pulled away. I remembered what I felt when I was in that space & all I wanted to do was help. So I started writing...an activity or reflection every single day for 21 Days. They say that’s how long it takes to break a habit right? Well how long does it take to mend a broken heart? We were on the road to figuring it out…

The 21 Day Ex-Boyfriend Cleanse is a practical guide to moving on. Every day you are given a tool for your own recovery, & a journal page to write out your thoughts: “Verbal vomit” as I like to call it. Lol. I pray the book will help you get to a place of healing, with a little bit of humor along the way..." -Aba Arthur

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You can also visit the "Letters to the Heartbroken" blog and share your thoughts and experiences.